{"id":14979,"date":"2023-07-26T14:58:42","date_gmt":"2023-07-26T12:58:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.foreo.com\/mysa\/?p=14979"},"modified":"2023-11-16T15:33:38","modified_gmt":"2023-11-16T14:33:38","slug":"five-different-love-languages-five-different-ways-to-please-your-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.foreo.com\/mysa\/five-different-love-languages-five-different-ways-to-please-your-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"Five Different Love Languages, Five Different Ways to Please Your Partner"},"content":{"rendered":"
When Dr. Gary Chapman wrote his book <\/span>The<\/span><\/i> Five Love Languages <\/span><\/i>over 30 years ago, he probably didn\u2019t think it would become an essential part of every couple\u2019s life.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Truly, learning your and your partner\u2019s love languages is the best way to find common ground and<\/span> communicate your needs within the relationship<\/span><\/a>. Gary Chapman described five main love languages:<\/span><\/p>\n Knowing your love language<\/span><\/a> can impact not only your relationship and communication but also your sex life. While sex doesn\u2019t inherently count as a love language, despite some people believing it should, it plays a very important role in each person\u2019s life. So, if you\u2019re interested in finding out how you can pleasure your partner based on their love language, read on.<\/span><\/p>\n People with word of affirmation language love verbal expressions of love and affection. They might want to always hear you say \u201cI love you,\u201d compliments, as well as getting verbal encouragement in all areas of their life. Suppose your partner\u2019s language is words of affirmation. In that case, the best way to spice up your sex life and please them is to use your words in bed, from communicating your needs clearly, and asking them what they want from you to always making sure that you\u2019re complimenting them during sex and letting them know how amazing they are.<\/span><\/p>\n People whose love language is words of affirmations might also appreciate some dirty talk in bed, so if you haven\u2019t tried it already, give it a go. It\u2019s a great way to spice things up. If you\u2019re unsure where to start, here are some safe starting phrases for reference:<\/span><\/p>\n Don\u2019t be afraid to use words in the bedroom. Your partner will appreciate it.<\/span><\/p>\n If your partner\u2019s love language is acts of service, they love it when you go the extra mile to make their life easier or nicer. It could be activities from picking up groceries to making coffee in the morning, and even small details matter. One way to show your partner you love them through the acts of service love language is by prioritizing their sexual pleasure over yours from time to time.<\/span><\/p>\n While sex is about pleasure for both parties involved, sometimes you might want to surprise your loved one with <\/span>spontaneous oral sex<\/span><\/a> in the middle of the day, when they least expect it. Or, maybe spend one night fully catering to their pleasure, in a <\/span>light dominant\/submissive roleplay<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n A lot of people confess to enjoying BDSM play because when you submit to your partner and let them run the show, you can simply lie down and relax, fully enjoying sex and your body. So, if your partner enjoys experimenting in bed, this might be the best way to show them your love. Just remember to communicate which activities are comfortable for both of you beforehand.<\/span><\/p>\n\n
Words of Affirmation<\/b><\/h2>\n
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Acts of Service<\/b><\/h2>\n