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Choosy Grooming: Bikini Care Guide

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Whether you love it, hate it, or anything in between, it’s probably safe to say that we’ve all dealt with the dread of a less-than-perfect bikini line. Ingrown hairs, razor burn, bumps, discoloration… all reasons we might hide behind a cover-up rather than frolic freely. The annoying truth is, our bikini area is very sensitive and will be affected by what we use around it and how we treat it. Growing up, nobody talked to me about the proper way to care for such a delicate part of my body, and I don’t recall any of my friends having that conversation either.

Anatomy 101

It’s important to note a few things anatomy-wise when tending to your sensitive area. Simply put, vagina and vulva are not the same. Vagina = inside, vulva = outside. It’s pretty common knowledge these days that douching is a no-go and can disrupt the pH of the vagina. Well, the same is true for a lot of other products that are specifically marketed as formulated for use on the female genital area.

What NOT To Do

Fragrance, harsh soaps, and cleansers that contain perfumes and other chemical ingredients can be highly irritating to delicate tissues, further contributing to an anything but attractive bikini line. So, you guessed it, step 1 in caring for your bikini line is to omit anything that might be irritating the overall area. In general, be wary of harsh chemical detergents, dryer sheets, synthetic fragrance, and dyes. More specifically, avoid perfumes and scented soaps/lotions. The New York Times offers helpful advice from Dr. Jen Gunter that reads: “Vulvar pH is around 5.3 and water is 7.0. It is best that any soap or cleanser you use have a pH between 5.3 and 7.0 as regular exposure to a higher pH could damage the lipid layer on the surface of the vulva.” “Soap can dry the skin and scents — even botanicals — can irritate it. A mild unscented soap, such as a pure glycerin soap, or a cleanser (a nonsoap product) is best, but use them sparingly. Special feminine cleansers are not needed and many have fragrance that could be irritating. A hypoallergenic facial cleanser can be used, but many women are also happy with just water.”

What Exactly Is An Ingrown Hair And How Is It Caused?

According to the Mayo Clinic, “an ingrown hair occurs when a shaved or tweezed hair grows back into the skin.” Being that our pubic hair is typically more coarse and curly, it has a higher chance of curling back into the skin when removed. What is the best way to avoid these pesty little guys? Keep reading! https://www.foreo.com/mysa/how-to-remove-ingrown-hair-the-right-way/


Wash, exfoliate, dry, moisturize.

  1. Dr. Gunter covered washing, but to sum it up once more, wash vulva daily with either water alone or a mild, unscented, pure soap or cleanser.
  2. Regular exfoliating (3-4x/week) keeps skin healthy and pores clear and unclogged. It also gets rid of dead skin cells reducing the likeliness of ingrowns. You can use an exfoliating mitt, body brush, or a homemade sugar scrub made of equal parts sugar and oil. If you’re a product guru and would rather buy something, make sure to steer clear of those harsh ingredients we talked about and opts for a natural, mild, gentle, minimal ingredient exfoliant.
  3. Yes, drying off should play a vital role in your grooming routine. Moist areas are particularly prone to bacterial growth, so whether you choose to wash with water alone or a mild cleanser, it’s imperative to make sure you’re completely dry before dressing!
  4. Moisturizing: Be sure not to skip this step! It’s important to moisturize after shaving. Make sure to use an unscented, alcohol-free moisturizer. Aloe vera, pure shea butter, and coconut oil are all great natural options. An anti-inflammatory cream or oil with vitamin E would be a great option as well!

Other basic tips to prevent ingrown hairs:

  • Avoid tight workout clothes post grooming. Rubbing from tight clothing can create inflamed follicles.
  • Avoid tweezing.
  • Let it breathe. Don’t keep your bikini area trapped in tight underwear or clothing when it’s not necessary.
  • Wear 100% cotton underwear.
  • Stay hydrated!


Pros: quick, easy, accessible at all times, essentially free Cons: razor burn, ingrowns, bumps Tips: Always use shaving cream. Reach for one with minimal and natural, moisturizing ingredients. This gives your skin the proper buffer it needs for your razor. Stoke the razor in the same direction of hair growth and make sure you’re using a SHARP blade by replacing head every 2-3 uses if using disposable. Avoid hot water directly after shaving.


Pros: lasting results, less shower time, gets hard to reach places Cons: ingrowns, (temporarily) painful, can be costly, regrowth Tips: Exfoliate before you go. Do not shave in-between visits (hair has to be grown out enough to be waxed, this is why regrowth can be a con). Dodge visits around your period, you will feel the pain much more. https://www.foreo.com/mysa/shaving-vs-waxing-what-is-the-best-method-for-hair-removal/


Pros: all-natural, less painful, quick, can be done at home Cons: can be difficult to find a place that offers this service, regrowth, can be pricey Tips: Great option for those with sensitive skin. To make at home, all you need is sugar, water, and lemon juice.


Pros: drastically reduces hair growth Cons: cost, longer process Tips: Make sure your technician is certified to do the procedure, as laser treatment is not taught in medical school and requires further training. https://www.foreo.com/mysa/5-things-your-ipl-hair-removal-device-has-to-have/

Fill Us In

Find a to-die-for bikini razor? Create an all-natural exfoliant that you just can’t bare to keep to yourself? Dying to tell someone about the organic moisturizer that saved your sensitive skin? Leave a reply below and let us know what new tips and tricks you discover. Your fellow bikini-season lovers will be glad you did 😉   Author: Bailey Barajas This article was first published on Intimina blog.



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Gerda 11/07/2023

I recently got a Peach 2 and have had a couple of treatments with it so far. It's a great device and much better than waxing because the skin isn't red or irritated after a treatment!

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erika 11/07/2023

In reply to by Gerda


Dear Gerda, thank you for sharing! We are so happy to hear this!


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